Washington Post Head Katharine Graham Dies
Had Been Hospitalized For Fall
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Watergate. Far ahead of other news organizations on a momentous political scandal, the Post felt the brunt of presidential wrath and drew criticism from readers who felt the paper was out to get Nixon. "It was a particularly lonely moment for us at the paper," Mrs. Graham recalled. "... I sometimes privately thought: If this is such a hell of a story, then where is everybody else?" Journalism aside, Mrs. Graham's career was equally notable for the business sense with which she built the Washington Post Co. into a profitable conglomerate of newspaper, magazine, broadcast and cable properties. "If you just measure her as the manager of a business and forget the soap opera stuff, her record is terrific," son Donald said in 1991 as he prepared to take over from his mother. Katharine Meyer was born June 16, 1917, in New York City, the fourth of five children. Her parents, banker Eugene Meyer and author Agnes Meyer, offered their children more wealth than affection. As Mrs. Meyer herself wrote, "I became a conscientious but scarcely a loving mother." Kay, as she was known, grew up in a world of governesses, French lessons and exclusive schools, but recalled that "I had more or less to bring myself up emotionally and figure out how to deal with whatever situations confronted me." She was president of her class at the exclusive Madeira School in suburban Virginia and spent two years at Vassar College before transferring to the University of Chicago in 1936. After graduation, she worked as a reporter for the San Francisco News before returning to Washington at age 21 to work on the editorial page of the newspaper that her father had bought in 1933 for $825,000. Time magazine ran a brief item on her hiring and quoted her father as saying, "If it doesn't work, we'll get rid of her." The publisher's daughter wrote "light" editorials, with titles like "On Being a Horse," and "Mixed Drinks," and before long met and married Philip Graham, a law clerk to Supreme Court Justice Stanley Reed. Eugene Meyer brought his son-in-law into the family business as associate publisher in 1945 and five months later made him publisher. While Philip Graham threw himself into turning around a money-losing paper, his wife set aside her own career to focus on their growing family, a division that gradually widened into a gulf and left her feeling like a "second-class citizen" and "drudge." "I increasingly saw my role as the tail to his kite -- and the more I felt overshadowed, the more it became a reality," she wrote, recalling her husband's domineering manner and tendency to look at her in a way that suggested "I was going on too long and boring people." Their home life unraveled as Philip Graham's mental illness worsened. A downward spiral of erratic behavior, heavy drinking and marital infidelity eventually ended in his suicide at Glen Welby farm. Stunned as she was by her husband's death, Mrs. Graham was determined to keep the paper in the family. Going to work "seemed to be the only sensible step," she wrote. "I didn't understand the immensity of what lay before me, how frightened I would be by much of it, how tough it was going to be, and how many anxious hours and days I would spend for a long, long time," she wrote. "Nor did I realize how much I was eventually going to enjoy it all." From such a tentative beginning, Mrs. Graham rose to the challenge. "She committed the paper to whatever its excellence is," said Ben Bradlee, whose hiring as Post executive editor was one of Mrs. Graham's best moves. "She was the heart and soul of the place." "Lady Pub," as she came to be known in the newsroom, could be ruthless in hiring and firing staff, coarse in her language and immovable when pushed too far, as when she broke a violent strike by Post pressmen in 1975 and replaced them with nonunion workers. "You can't like someone who did what I did," she once said with a shrug, referring to management changes.
By 1980, she was No. 1 on the World Almanac's list of the nation's 25 most influential women. Even longtime antagonist Richard Nixon said of her: "In Washington, there are many who read the Post and like it and many who read the Post and don't like it. But almost everyone reads the Post, which is a tribute to Kay Graham's skill as publisher." As her stature in journalism grew, Mrs. Graham loomed large on the social scene as well. Truman Capote's 1966 "black and white ball," thrown in honor of Mrs. Graham, served as her coming-out party of sorts. Halston was designing her clothes and New York hairdresser Kenneth was styling her hair. Invitations to her elegant Georgetown home or her Martha's Vineyard retreat became as coveted as those to the White House. Cabinet members and White House figures were her tennis partners. President Reagan attended her 70th birthday party and toasted her as a "sensitive, thoughtful and very kindly person." Princess Diana walked the Vineyard beaches with her, confiding her aspirations for her sons. And, earlier this year she hosted a dinner party for the new president, George W. Bush, to introduce him to the Washington power elite. Along the way, Mrs. Graham also became a powerful role model for women. In 1974, she was the first woman elected to The Associated Press board of directors, serving the maximum nine years. She also was chairman of the American Newspaper Publishers Association from 1980-82. That group is now called the Newspaper Association of America. She had come a long way from the day in 1961 when she told an interviewer that "men are more able than women at executive work ... I think a man would be better at this job I'm in than a woman." When she handed control of the Post over to son Donald in 1991, fulfilling her early desire to keep the paper in the family, she said it was time to bring in "new ideas and new challenges and new energy." It also gave her time, she said, to write her memoirs and focus on her family. Her other children are Elizabeth "Lally" Weymouth, an author; William Welsh Graham, managing general partner of Graham Partners, a Los Angeles-based investment partnership; and Stephen Meyer Graham, co-founder of the nonprofit New York Theatre Workshop. "There are positive aspects to being old," she wrote. "Worry, if not gone altogether, no longer haunts you in the middle of the night. And you are free -- or freer -- to turn down the things that bore you and spend time on matters and with people you enjoy." In recent years, Mrs. Graham served as a co-chairman of the International Herald Tribune, vice chairman of the board of the Urban Institute and a fellow of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences.Additional Resource: Distributed by Internet Broadcasting Systems, Inc. The Associated Press contributed to this report. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.







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